The Art of Eating Pussy (Part 3) The Conclusion

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59597I hope ya’ll have learned some good techniques. Smiles. I know my Sista’s will my definitely too thankful to you for your newly found “pussy eating skills” This is the last article on “Art of Eating Pussy”. The next article will be all about the fellas! “The Art of Sucking Dick” So, let’s just up right into it….                                                                                Fingers  tumblr_m4l9sretnb1rwxso7o1_500Fingers are valuable adjuncts to eating pussy. Most women masturbate by pressing a finger or fingers over their clit, possibly “thru” the skin of their lips, and vigorously rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth direction. You can do this too, ask her, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done. You’ll never be a good lover until you can bring your woman to climax with your hands. When you fuck her from behind, or really in any position which doesn’t allow her to simultaneously rub her clit against your body, reach down or around and rub her clit. I know it’s distracting, but just do it anyway. One important point to note: make sure that your fingers are well lubricated and most of all, your nails cut, I mean cut back to the quick and sanded smooth. The slightest hangnail can be very painful when raked over that tender flesh. There’s nothing more uncomfortable (and sometimes downright painful) than a dry finger or hangnail roughly rubbed across one’s clit.images-4Of course, that’s not all you can do with your fingers. One technique which is very exciting is to spread her lips wide apart with one hand, and with your index finger straight like a pencil, flick the side of it rapidly across her clit. This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Combining this with the addition of some tongue action elsewhere is nothing short of bliss.tumblr_npg7zalk3n1tkqkm2o1_400Sticking one or more fingers inside her pussy can also be wonderful. How many fingers you use depends on the woman. Some women don’t want you to stick your finger in their pussy at all, some like only one (at least at first), some like their cunt to be full so the more the better (within reason). You can simply move them in and out (this feels best with at least two or three fingers pushed in hard) or wiggle them around. A particularly intense motion is to face your hand so that you have two fingers inside her with your palm facing the front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly, as if waving hello. You’re aiming to stimulate a particular part of the woman’s vagina – namely the lower anterior (front) part. When combined with sucking her clit, this is nearly certain to bring her to a fast and intense climax.If you’re between her legs, busily eating away, and want to finger her at the same time, your thumb (or thumbs) may be the best ones to use. It is difficult to turn your other fingers around to work on her “G” spot. It also allows you to use your other fingers on her clit and the rest of her pussy.e012381314220bf2a38d2d55a48bf082An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one (and later two) fingers inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. I’m talking about that fleshy “mound”; over her pubic bone. Your finger goes in and out and the ball of your hand is pressed hard against her pussy. You may want to rub or even shake the entire area with your palm. Putting it

All Together   7a6d6330941cd2dd8551395907ab7d3fI think variety is crucial. Some guy posted an article detailing a road map of kissing and licking (first here, then here, etc.) Much better to do the unexpected, sometimes a hungry, aggressive approach, other times a laid-back, leisurely one. You can even include your nose, or your chin in the act. Start slowly, that’s the key, and let your lover guide the speed of the crescendo, try playing Ravel’s Bolero and keep pace with the time and intensity of the music. In all cases, start gently. Roughness and clumsiness are big turn-offs. As she gets more excited, pay more attention to her clit. As she gets closer to orgasm, don’t leave her clit for more than a moment or two. It’s great to move down to her pussy and then right back to her clit. If you’re between her legs with your tongue in her pussy, look at where her clit is, right under your nose. Don’t just look at it, use your nose and keep up the stimulation of her clit while you’re thrusting your tongue around in her pussy. If you’re in the 69 position, then use your chin on her clit while you French kiss her pussy.

tumblr_nakyeneqfn1rhvhsio1_250When she’s three breaths away from cumming, moving your mouth off or away from her clit is agony. That’s fine if you’re intentionally torturing her, just understand that this is what you’re doing. The only prohibition is to be reasonably gentle with her clit. Nibbling or biting is fine elsewhere, but we’re talking about a sensitive spot.

Speaking of prolonging the agony . . . I think this is great fun. Bring your partner just to the edge of orgasm, and < stop >. This isn’t easy unless you really know your lover well. Just have her help you. Say, “Grab my head and stop me just before you think you’re gonna cum.” Then take your sweet time. Blow on her clit, take it into your mouth just briefly, flick it just the slightest bit with your tongue. You’ll have this woman squirming and moaning like she’s dying. Finger her deeply, enjoy the ecstasy you’re imparting, and finally, have pity. Let the poor woman cum.

OK, let’s get back to where we were when we got off onto those tricks with tongues and fingers. You were lying there with your tongue up her pussy tumblr_n8rd1oxsfg1rk42e6o4_400trying to find out what it felt like inside, nice wasn’t it, she liked it didn’t she. Open her outer and inner lips with your fingers. Get your whole mouth into the act. Press your lips against the lips of her pussy, run your tongue in as far as you can get it and French kiss her pussy, long and hard. Tongue-fuck her for a while, watching her response, she liked that too, then slide your tongue out of her pussy. She’s hot now, don’t lose contact with her pussy, keep your mouth or tongue working on something. Slowly lap your tongue up the length of her vestibule to her clit and gently lick it a few times, a little harder as she raises her crotch up to you.

Play with her pussy lips with your lips and tongue, up and down, both sides. Kiss her pussy again and lap your tongue back up to her meatus and play with it a little, then on up to her clit again, pulling gently on it with your lips. Run your tongue back down to the bottom of her pussy and then, keeping your tongue on the outside of her lips, lap it all the way up to the top. Show her how much you like to eat her. Open your mouth wide and close it down over her pussy taking as much in as you can. press your mouth hard against her, rocking your head around and around while you find her clit with your tongue and start to lick it. She’s running her fingers through your hair now, watching you intently, mouth open making those sexy sounds women make when they’re really on the way up.tumblr_o314u5pfbx1v90znoo1_400Release her lips and look up at her face, make eye contact, watch her expression and feel her raise her pussy up to you as you gently suck the head of her clit into your mouth, open wider and take its hood in, holding it with your lips. Let her clit slip back under its hood, then suck it into your mouth again, flicking it with your tongue, let it slide back out under its hood and suck it back into your mouth again and again until it’s sliding in and out like she was fucking

you with it. Slide your hands up along the sides of her pussy, working your thumbs into her pussy, fingering the top of it in time with the strokes of her clit. She’s grabbed your head, setting the pace as she pulls you to her harder and harder, rocking her crotch back and forth faster and faster. You’ve found what she wants and she’s gonna cum and you’d better not stop until she does . . . and then some.

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69 can be done male on top, female on top, or side by side. The latter two are easier, though it’s more restful with both partners lying down. Some women love being licked on all fours, so if female-on-top 69 drives her wild, take the hint and find ways to eat her in this position. All she has to do is slide her knees out and you’ll find your mouth in her pussy. I happen to enjoy male on top, but for women who haven’t learned to deep-throat, this is a sure choking position. If your woman wants to deep-throat you while you’re eating her, male-on-top is THE 69 position. When her head is tilted back, especially if you’re taller than she is, you can really slide your dick all the way down her throat. But don’t forget what you’re supposed to be doing! Each of you must realize that you can’t let up on what you’re supposed to be doing just because what the other is doing feels so good. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you’re feeling enhance what you’re doing. It’s sort of like a payback, you’re making me feel so good I’m going to make you feel even better. Once you’ve mastered throat fucking, man on top 69 can really get interesting, he can eat you and fuck you at the same time. The only problem comes when he can’t make up his mind whether to concentrate on fucking or sucking. Don’t worry about it, just lie there and enjoy it, let him sort it out, he’ll get around to finishing both jobs.

The element that must be in place for good 69 is simple: Both of you must be experienced! Each of you must realize that when what the other is doing feels so good, you can’t just let up on what you’re supposed to be doing to enjoy it. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you’re feeling enhance what you’re doing, share each other’s emotions. That’s why, when my lover and I engage in oral sex, we like 69 so much, we can build each other’s pleasure to such wonderful simultaneous climaxes.

As I said earlier, some women feel lonely when you’re eating their pussy, they want something to hug. Well, you can give them something. Eat her in a side by side 69 position and let her hug your dick, with her mouth. She can put her arms around your hips, press her breasts against you and hold your dick in her mouth while you put her on cloud nine, just make sure you tell her not to distract you too much.

If you have a man who is not in the least interested in giving head and only likes to receive it, then to attempt sixty-nine is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship. You can tell if he really likes to eat your pussy. See if you can find a time when the two of you are in bed naked on your backs and he doesn’t have a hard-on. Quietly roll over onto your knees, straddle his head and slowly rub your muff over his face, letting your moist lips slide over his nose and mouth. Look back at his dick. If it springs up toward the ceiling and you find his tongue in your pussy, then he likes it.

UUUUNNNNGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! (or, I’M COMING!!!)tumblr_mdvpfk7o4p1rf44poo1_400Okay, she’s grabbed your head and pressed your face into her muff; she’s practically suffocating you, she’s screaming and bucking up in the air; you feel her pussy contracting wildly – how long should you keep it up?? The answer is simple, until she makes you stop. Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you’d just keep going. Do come up for air, but remember, her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does. Play it safe by continuing the stimulation.

If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your dick alone. So you can count on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she’s excited or only when she’s having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her pussy. If your fingers are inside, move them a little, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple orgasms this way, a woman stays excited for an hour after she’s had an orgasm. tumblr_inline_mlsbkl2ov71qz4rgpHow many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to have one orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again, but need about five minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive right after they cum that they may push your head violently away. This doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve had enough, only that you need to stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage of women are able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This is the much-touted multiple-orgasm that’s experienced by a minority of women. I know this makes it difficult to know when enough is enough, but there’s a simple answer: ask her.

After you’ve made her cum, don’t leave her alone just yet. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman, by nature, requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Don’t wipe yourself off, walk around the bed to get to the other side, go to the bathroom. Maintain close physical contact, work your way from where you were when she climaxed to holding her in your arms. Lie close together, arms and legs intertwined, wet bodies pressed close together, let your dick lie in the folds of her pussy. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down, or, if nature allows, builds back up. If you’ve just finished my favorite 69, do some serious kissing. Taste your own juices as her tongue brings traces of it into your mouth while your tongue passes her woman’s essence to her taste buds. Taste the delicious mixtures as your tongues dart back and forth, mixing the sweet pussy and dick sex juices in your mouths. Who knows what new pleasures this could lead to as your passions begin to rebuild.tumblr_nvezpjt1ay1uu9li3o1_500GOD I’M SO EXCITED IT FEELS GREAT BUT I JUST CAN’T CUM It happens to all of us sometimes – distraction, embarrassment, anxiety, or just an inability to “let go.” What do you do about it? The first question is; can she easily bring herself to a climax in the privacy of her own home. If the answer is no – then she needs to do some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know of: “For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality” by Lonnie Barbach, and “Sex for One: The Joy of Self-loving” by Betty Dodson; pick up one. Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice, practice, practice!

Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone – ask her point blank: “Is there something different I can do?”  Many women are shy about criticizing their lovers, but if asked outright will surprise you with a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of mechanics, like a little to right, please, or not so rough, or more pressure and faster. Ah . . . perfect.

But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you’re doing everything right but she just can’t cum. There are two probable causes: self-consciousness and/or self-loathing. For women who can’t help watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything that focuses her attention on what the two of you’re doing. This is a “be here now” kind of thing – definitely not an introspective activity. Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the lights or turn them off completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said A glass – getting drunk will definitely not help). Have her lie on her back, or propped up comfortably with some pillows. This isn’t the time for her to sit on your face, or the edge of the bed, or stand up against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long period to eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said about asking her questions – just close your eyes and get into it. I know this can be a difficult and exhausting exercise, but she’ll be extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets easier each time. If all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she’s about to cum anyway. Over time, you can take over completely.

For women who feel that their pussy’s are dirty or distasteful, all of the above methods may be helpful, but the underlying issue must also be addressed. I am amazed at how many women are ambivalent about their own genitals. They don’t love “that part” of their body, and they can’t believe that you would either. Yes, it’s important to be clean. But clean means a daily shower which includes washing their pussy. It doesn’t mean vainly attempting to remove every trace of smell or taste. The natural taste and fragrance of the fresh secretions from a healthy woman’s pussy are beautiful and erotic. Hopefully you agree (and if not, try hard to cultivate this attitude). When she learns to love her pussy, she’ll be infinitely more comfortable with your loving it too.

 

redwings                                                                      MenstruationimageI haven’t met a lot of men who are completely comfortable going down on a woman when she has her period. But some are. Most women are at their horniest before and sometimes during their period. You should definitely find a way to make her cum when she’s bleeding, be it through fucking, manual, or oral stimulation. If you feel comfortable going down on her, great, it’s perfectly safe. As you now know, you don’t need to get anywhere near her pussy to make her cum. You may suggest that she insert a tampon, and then wash up. Or you could lay down a few old towels, turn out the lights, and forget about menstruation.cemsoh2uiaaaoo

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Ha! I hope you’re still with me…. Smiles. Well, that concludes “The Art of Eating Pussy”.  I honestly can’t wait untill next week for “The Art of Sucking Dick” articles. I’m still working on them. But they will be down by next week.

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